She Escaped Gloriavale Cult & Found Her Voice as a Woman: Lilia Tarawa

| The Kotodama Podcast | Ep.21 |

What happens when the place that raised you also abused and silenced you? In this deeply moving episode of the Kotodama Podcast, I sat down with Lilia Tarawa — bestselling author, brand coach, and former member of the infamous Gloriavale cult. Born into a highly controlling, cult environment, Lilia shared what it’s really like to grow up believing this world is all there is. She opened up about the emotional conflict of belonging and oppression, the cost of losing your voice, and the terrifying freedom that comes with leaving everything you’ve ever known. Together, we explores:

• What life inside a cult really feels like – and why it can be both heaven and hell
• The hidden trauma of control, shame, and suppressed identity
• Reclaiming femininity, sexuality, and self-worth after indoctrination
• Why your story doesn’t need to be sensational to be powerful
• How storytelling can heal trauma and build authentic personal brands
• Treating your energy like a multimillion-dollar asset
• Why healing begins the moment you stop waiting for permission

This conversation is honest, and deeply empowering — whether you’ve experienced religious trauma, left a high-control environment, or are simply learning to trust your own voice again. ✨ You are the permission you’ve been looking for. ✨ Your story matters. ✨ And healing starts with the choices you make today. Watch until the end for profound insights on boundaries, mindset, money, identity, and creating a life that actually feels good.